More than once in our lives, we’ve
looked at a celebrity, a professional athlete, or a friend thinking “I want her
hair” or “If only I could throw a baseball at 95 mph”. We are never satisfied
with our life. We always want more.
David Sedaris creates a compare and
contrast essay showing the differences between his own childhood and his
partner’s childhood. They lead completely diverse lives; Sedaris living in
North Carolina with his family, while Hugh is living a life of instability
never knowing what’s going to happen next. They do similar activities, however
not to the same extent. Like Sedaris says, “The verbs are the same, but he
definitely wins the prize when it comes to nouns and objects.”
The same thing happens in our normal
lives. We want, want, want something, yet, never stopping to think how great
our life actually is. We’re not shivering in the cold like the homeless; we
aren’t dying of an incurable disease like some patients. We take our life for
granted, thinking that failing a quiz is the end of all humanity; however, we
don’t have to worry about where our next meal is coming from. We need to become
more grateful for what we have, rather than worrying about what we want. You
never know how great you have it until you lose it.